The Nightmare That Is Turning 50, REALLY?

 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Oh joyous occasion with humor, resilience, and a dash of rebellious spirit. So, let's dive into the world of turning 50, complete with grim reaper decorations, feeling like you have one foot in the grave, eew.

The Grim Reaper Decorations Saga:

As you walk down the party aisle of your local store, you can't help but notice a peculiar sight. Grim Reaper decorations, right next to the colorful balloons and festive streamers. It's as if the universe is reminding you of the fleeting nature of life, even in the midst of celebration! Embrace this ironic twist and consider it a gentle nudge to make the most of every moment.

Foot-in-the-Grave Feeling - A Hilarious Misconception:

You catch yourself thinking, "I'm halfway to a century, should I start shopping for caskets?" But hold on a minute! Feeling like you have one foot in the grave at 50 is like thinking the party is over before the music has even started. Remind yourself that life is full of surprises, adventures, and endless possibilities. It's time to kick that foot back out and dance your way into this new chapter!

Life Begins at 50 - Defying Stereotypes and Embracing Wisdom:

Contrary to popular belief, turning 50 is not a signal to slow down or fade into the background. It's a time to celebrate the wisdom and experiences you've gained over the years. You're entering a phase where you can fully embrace your unique quirks, pursue new passions, and live life on your own terms. Remember, age is just a number, and you're rocking it like never before!

Surrounding Yourself with Supportive Philosophy:

In your journey through this milestone, it's essential to surround yourself with a supportive philosophy that encourages growth and positivity. Seek out the company of like-minded individuals who share your zest for life. Embrace the power of laughter, stay curious, and nourish your mind, body, and soul. Remember, the best way to defy the foot-in-the-grave feeling is to keep moving forward with a smile on your face!

So, dear friend, as you embark on the adventure of turning 50, remember to laugh in the face of Grim Reaper decorations, kick that foot out of the grave, and embrace the vibrant and exciting years ahead. Age is just a number, and you're equipped with a wealth of wisdom and a thirst for life. So go forth, celebrate, and let the world know that turning 50 is just the beginning of your most extraordinary chapter yet! Cheers to you and the adventures that await!

How will I accomplish this?

Explore Creative Outlets: Take up painting, writing, photography, or any other creative endeavor that sparks your interest. Attend workshops or join local art communities to learn and grow alongside fellow artists. For me, I am starting a new career in June of 2025 and this blog will capture the journey.

Learn a Musical Instrument: Always had a secret desire to play the guitar, piano, or drums? Now is the perfect time to pick up an instrument and start jamming! Take lessons or join a band to connect with other musicians. I literally may take guitar lessons, maybe. IDK.

Travel and Adventure: Plan exciting trips to destinations you've always dreamed of visiting. Whether it's exploring ancient ruins, hiking in breathtaking landscapes, or immersing yourself in new cultures, travel can ignite your sense of adventure and open doors to new experiences. I want to explore new areas, for now though my short term goal is to go back to Walt Disney World.

Start a New Hobby: Discover a hobby that captivates you, such as gardening, cooking, woodworking, or even beekeeping! Engaging in a hands-on activity can be immensely satisfying and allow you to tap into your creativity and learn new skills. I am going to continue blogging and journaling and get back into photography when I graduate.

Volunteer and Give Back: Find a cause or organization that resonates with you and volunteer your time and skills. It's a wonderful way to make a difference, connect with your community, and find fulfillment in helping others. Part of being a social worker is doing pro-bono work, and I want to work with LGBTQIA+ youth to help them have healthy happy long lives.

Embrace Physical Activities: Explore physical activities that excite you, such as yoga, dancing, hiking, or martial arts. Engaging in regular exercise not only improves your physical well-being but also boosts your mood and overall mental health. Yes, I need to go back to the gym.

Enroll in Courses or Workshops: Feed your curiosity by enrolling in courses or workshops that align with your interests. It could be anything from learning a new language to studying history, science, or philosophy. Lifelong learning keeps your mind sharp and expands your horizons. It has been proposed that I need to get my MSSW.

Join Social or Hobby Groups: Seek out local social or hobby groups that cater to your interests. Whether it's a book club, a hiking group, or a cooking class, connecting with like-minded individuals can lead to new friendships and shared experiences. Maybe? I am not sure what groups I would want to be with?

Start a Blog or YouTube Channel: Share your knowledge, experiences, and passions with the world by starting a blog or creating a YouTube channel. It's a great way to express yourself, connect with others who share your interests, and even inspire others along the way. That may be a whole another side of this blog project I can consider.

Embrace Self-Care and Mindfulness: Prioritize self-care, engage in mindfulness practices, and nurture your overall well-being. This could include activities like meditation, journaling, practicing gratitude, or seeking therapy to enhance your mental and emotional health. As you see, I am trying to explore that every day.

My birthday is on Monday, March 4th. Happy 50th To Me!